What types of factors contribute to difficulties in relationships?
In the Australian Relationships Indicators Survey conducted by Relationships Australia and CUA in 2008, people were asked to select from a list of factors that could impact upon partner relationships. Their responses are listed below (Please note: as respondents could nominate multiple answers, the total percentage is greater than 100%).
|
Factors impacting on your partner relationship |
Response (%) |
|
Stress |
68 |
|
Different goals and expectations |
55 |
|
Different perspectives or values |
54 |
|
Lack of time to spend together |
53 |
|
Work pressures |
50 |
|
Lack of trust |
45 |
|
Financial insecurity/difficulties |
40 |
|
Having/bringing up children |
39 |
|
Addictions |
30 |
|
Serious illness or disability |
30 |
|
Sexual difficulties |
28 |
|
Job loss / unemployment |
28 |
|
Aging parents or other caring responsibilities |
24 |
|
Violence or abuse |
22 |
|
Children from a previous relationship |
20 |
|
None |
7 |
The 2008 survey results show that most people have experienced stress as the main factor to impact on their partner relationships. A cross-analysis of the results suggested that when the other issues listed are present in a relationship, it is highly likely that the individuals involved feel stressed.
This is particularly the case if there are issues with work pressures, job insecurity, loss or unemployment, or violence or abuse. Half of all respondents had experienced different goals or expectations, different perspectives or values, a lack of time to spend together or the problem of work pressures.
A continuing trend is shown across the 2006 and 2008 surveys identifying the three main factors most negatively impacting on relationships - different goals or expectations, different perspectives or values and lack of time to spend together.
The findings of this survey confirm that having difficulties in relationships is normal.
Many relationships do survive such difficulties. When trouble strikes in a relationship, it is advisable to get help to support you and your partner through the difficult times.
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