Violence and Abuse in Relationships
Physical violence in intimate and family relationships is a serious criminal offence and is never acceptable as a response to conflict or provocation.
Once physical violence occurs in a relationship, it can easily become a pattern. It often becomes more frequent, and usually becomes more serious the longer the relationship continues. It can ultimately lead to serious injury, or even death. Violence in an intimate or family relationship is a sign that the relationship is in crisis. It should be taken seriously and assistance should be sought.
If you feel unsafe or in danger, contact a domestic violence support service or the police.
Any form of violence and abuse in a relationship is a serious statement that things are not all right.
- Do you ever have trouble keeping your cool?
- Do you ever lash out verbally or physically?
- Do you ever use violence or abuse towards people you love?
- Are you a victim of violence or abuse?
- Can you recognise and admit there is a problem?
- Do you want to change?
- Do you want to have a safe non-violent healthy relationship?
If you said 'yes' to any of the above, getting relationship support about violence or abuse behaviour is important.


